Doctors believe that the deterioration of jealousy, like other obsessive-compulsive disorder, in the period of spring avitaminosis and seasonal emotional instability — within norm if it does not entail “a prolonged depression and inappropriate behavior.” So jealous people will always, and enterprising businessmen take advantage of this. Today in the service of jealousy every day comes a new technology. But this harmless for a relationship jealousy still doesn’t. So before giving vent to his suspicions and to use this newfangled offers of the market, meet with unfortunate endings of the stories of our jealous.
photo: Gennady Cherkasov
38-year-old Mary is married to Eugene for 14 years, her husband holds a public office and a lot of time devotes to work. Any thoughts on the topic of marital leftists and it was until this spring, when Mary began to spend more time with “the girls” — wives of husband’s colleagues.
We regularly have a slumber party, where they told some wild stories from the lives of mutual friends, calling each other husband not to take his eyes… And in February, a friend invited me to celebrate Valentine’s Day in the women’s Kingdom, all men at work, Tuesday was. And steel over a glass of each other to encourage, saying, are you sure your really work? I told my husband believe. They laugh at me raised — say, to believe the mouse to the cat!
So Mary and learned that in the circle of wives of husband’s colleagues adopted to control men. To do this, bought all sorts of expensive gadgets: they foraged private firms it people, almost every day inventing new products. These teeny-weeny things, and they listen, and peep, and write! Mary recognized that immediately, as ordered, she was reminded of all the “suspicious” absence husband travel, night calls…
A few days later, she clocked herself so that she felt that Eugene was cheating on her long ago. And Mary decided she should just make sure she is mistaken, to regain a peaceful sleep.
Compassionate friend immediately supplied Mary contacts “checked.” She called the caller understood everything perfectly. Immediately stated that the Car situation will help the mini-recorder thing functional and invisible. However, it is expensive and needs special supporting program, which is entered into the computer. “For this we have specialists coming out to the house to the client, reassured Mary. — Just keep in mind that the computer to which you connect our device to have access only you to your husband not detected. So better to put the password.”
Appeared on the wife’s laptop password was alert the husband, so Mary came up to aconnecting device with my old stationary computer, sent useless to the apartment of her mother. It was convenient and safe: mom can’t even turn on, and she lives in the country, and the keys Masha has. Mary called a meeting with the representative of the company there, and at the appointed hour arrived, cute smiling the pros for 25 years.
His name was also Jack, as a husband, — Masha remembers. — He explained that the device is the size of a computer flash drive can be left in any secret place at home, office or car, during the week it will be included in any sound recording of it, and all the rest of the time remain in sleep mode. And in a week you could pick it up and connecting to my computer with downloaded there program to listen in on everything that happened in your absence. Jack got it all set up, showed me how to use the device. Young pros turned out to be a pleasant conversationalist. Was younger than me for 15 years, but looked at me with genuine male interest…
Mary did everything according to instructions: put a tiny device under the skin of the back seat of the car of a husband, and a week safely removed and rushed to the apartment to the mother, burning with impatience to listen to the recording. But, alas, to connect it to a gadget to my computer failed.
— Before leaving, Jack was warned that when difficulties arise, he can call at any time, and I again called him.
He quickly arrived, found out that Mary had forgotten to turn on the device the tiny toggle switch and the week of wiretapping wasted — the device did not work. Masha said that next week the husband leaves on a business trip for five days, and she’ll try to attach the device in a suitcase when going to collect his things. And the I. T. expert Jack suddenly said how amazing that such a beautiful woman who may be not true.
And at some point it seemed to me that nothing bad will happen if I flirt with him, — says Masha. — Why not? Moreover, we have now shared, and the circumstances in the form of a business trip of her husband contribute…
Legitimate when Jack left for my trip, taking in his things hidden deep inside the device, Jack-the it guy called and said that he had forgotten in the apartment Machine mom important disk. They met and started… Both sides were satisfied and secured success a couple more times. Then came back from a trip my husband, and with him and a gadget. Gadget not told anything incriminating her husband Masha, writing of his snoring in the hotel room Yes short business calls. But Jack-the it guy said that it was necessary to hide the thing not in the suitcase, and the briefcase that my husband always carries with him, a suspect may be smart enough to instruct his wife horn outside their room. And Mary felt that marital jealousy was a pleasant receded into the background, it completely captured the romantic half-forgotten experiences, inspired by a young lover.
— I got carried away. And two weeks later lost caution. My mother came from the country for a few days and wanted to meet, and I called Eugene day our husband’s apartment. My husband never went home during the day — and then come at the most inopportune moment! It turned out that I caught him cheating and never got caught, but he caught me!
Husband to fuss and fight not. Said he respected the feelings that he is ready to voluntarily drop out of a love triangle.
— Upon hearing that her husband is willing to give me to him, Jack was gone and even the phone stopped picking up! — Masha remembers. Husband Packed up and moved out. The other day I called his lawyer and said that Eugene’s filing for divorce…
When the advice-of a friend found out about it, they shed light on the disappearance of Genis-young. It turned out that like him do more creative work, spy equipment for family purposes spetsializiruyutsya on the novels with their clients. After all, gadgets for 20 Grand out of jealousy I buy mostly wealthy well-groomed ladies in the juice. Besides, tormented with jealousy…
photo: Gennady Cherkasov
Not sure, not check!
The history of Kemerovo Othello told my friend the lawyer. 52-year-old entrepreneur from Siberia Igor (name changed) for the third time married to a girl younger than herself almost 30 years and was very nervous leaving her home alone. He thought that in his absence, the young wife spends time with her former pals. But the job required frequent trips to Moscow. And when in the same Moscow heard about the newfangled wiretap interested. The seller is calling the product similar to the battery for my cell phone, “toy guard family happiness.” Explained that the “watchman” is easier: stick in a SIM card, connect, you Colnect with its own phone and then leave a “bug” you at any desired place on your mobile phone quietly listening to what is happening there. And even showed, the main reason for leaving the “bug” on the table in the restaurant, came with a potential client on the street and gave a listen in your phone you can clearly hear the sounds of the restaurant.
The businessman was impressed, paid a hefty sum, at the same time by purchasing new acquaintance and SIM card for the gadget. The seller has set up a special channel in the telephone number of the buyer, connected to the acquisition and bowed, leaving the business card of a private detective Agency. After returning home, Igor wanted to test the device, but first there was time. And then tried, but nothing came of it. Thought I forgot what to press to activate a listening channel, and decided during another visit to Moscow to call on the card and clarify rules for the use of the “Keeper of family happiness”.
But in another visit to the capital of Igor waited for news female infidelity worse — someone’s framing him. And make it could only be someone with knowledge of the internal Affairs of a company owned by Igor… And when he called the business card the detective Agency, the seller immediately called him up, and she showed a surprising awareness of the financial problems Igor! And even offered their assistance in resolving the problem by eavesdropping on the other side. Cost such assistance is very expensive. Here Siberian businessman and slowly began to see the light.
— I never guessed! — grabbing it behind the head in a lawyer’s office. — Of course, I ordered the competitors on the tender! They theconnective my mobile not only bought me the “bug”, but with his too. And while I’m tormented by jealousy, and then completely forgot how this stuff to include, they quietly listened to all my phone conversations! Himself the mole, threw the chaff like a boy!
As explained to me in the bar, such tricks are not rare today. And to work for the money on both sides may be the same Agency providing services wiretapping. “For them it’s just business to provide certain technical services, anything personal, — the lawyer explained. — For them who pays the rights. So today they can take the information for you and tomorrow for your competitors. In order not to fall into that trap, never to let a stranger something to adjust in your smartphone, under whatever pretext it may happen. Remember: the moment you have set up in your phone channel and listen to someone, you become vulnerable to eavesdropping by third parties”.
About how jealousy has destroyed a happy family 32-year-old Anna (name changed), told the psychologist. Anna learned that there is a service on checking spouse loyalty. A special Agency provides charming men and women who accidentally learn your husband or wife and provoke them to the affair. The reaction of the tested half reported and passed to a spouse of the customer. This service Anna can not afford, but the idea she liked. And she asked one of her friends didn’t know her husband’s Fame, her husband to check “for lice” in social networks. A friend of Mila accidentally came upon the page of Fame online and wrote a message. He replied, and gradually struck up a correspondence. Everything was under strict control of Anna: honestly Mila sent her scans of the correspondence. Thank the stranger replied, but nothing wrong with his responses were not. But Anna was offended by the fact that her husband is so easy to draw in side conversation. And at the instigation of a jealous wife Mila went into the attack — said he wanted to meet and Thank personally waiting for a call. Glory answered I’ll call you when would be a convenient time, but never called. But to Anna it was enough to fall into a rage. She decided to hold their guesses and wait, but did not last long. On the first question her husband why she’s so grumpy, Anna exploded and told him off. Mentioning that Mila it is specially sent to him the Glory, check. And he has not passed the test and led to the first available skirt.
Vyacheslav was very offended, — says the psychologist, — and it can be understood. Nobody likes that he not only trust but also verify by provocation. To me Vyacheslav came with what seem to have fallen out of love with his wife. And like a family to ruin he did not want, but also how to regain trust, he does not know. Said he does not feel for his wife past tenderness, and make itself cannot. But talking about divorce is not yet decided — especially Anna decides that he has someone there, but it’s not, it just does not feel its former attachment to Anna. Asked me to meet his wife and to prepare her for a possible breakup. I spoke with Anna, so I know the backstory of her action. Vyacheslav she loves and the parting is absolutely not ready. While I’m trying to save this marriage, but there are no guarantees, Vyacheslav like something broke. So advice to all those who can’t cope with his jealousy: look for evidence for their suspicion, but only if really ready to leave. And if you are not ready, you think about it, why would you want them? To torture yourself silently or out loud in order to manipulate the partner, hoisted him to a sense of guilt? But neither that, nor another will not make your marriage happy.